Exploring Trauma Through Storytelling: A Personal Journey
- HGBM
- Feb 16
- 3 min read
Updated: 4 days ago
The Impact of Personal Experiences
I enjoy writing stories about people's struggles. I also love reading them. These days, I find myself listening to audiobooks more than writing my own. One significant observation I have made is how my trauma influences my writing. While I can't speak for the authors I admire, they seem knowledgeable yet emotionally detached. Their stories often place you in the midst of events, a feat that is challenging to achieve.
In contrast, you might not feel this closeness with my characters right away. This may change if you read through Rona Shively Stories. I often find myself writing from within my trauma, which makes me want to protect my readers rather than draw them into the chaos I experienced. I question whether this is a good strategy.
Influences from Other Authors
I usually listen to authors like Lisa Scottoline, Sue Grafton, Janet Evanovich, and Sarah Strohmeyer. Recently, I have discovered several gripping authors who have held my attention. Linwood Barclay, Kevin O'Brien, Ezekiel Boone, Dervla McTiernan, and Freida McFaddin are some of my recent favorites. Most notably, I have found Karin Slaughter's books to be highly entertaining.
As a fan of mystery and thriller novels, I was overjoyed to discover her Will Trent series. Listening to this series made me reflect on the differences between her character development and mine. I'm not being overly critical; I'm just being realistic. I enjoy my stories, yet I wonder if they lean more towards purpose than narrative. Should a story serve a moral, or can it encompass both?
The Healing Power of Stories
As a trauma survivor, I intentionally incorporate those emotions into my narratives. In Bloom and throughout the Rona Shively series, I address difficult subjects like miscarriage, domestic violence, and alcoholism. These topics are familiar to me. As part of my healing journey, I realized I wanted to connect with those experiencing similar struggles.
Reading about others who have survived hardship can be a lifeline for those grappling with their own pain. When I was younger, I often felt powerless. Finding a book with a character dealing with similar issues offered comfort. Knowing I was not alone was empowering. As I matured, I began to remember the stories that inspired me and realized that I could also rewrite my narrative. All it took was picking up a pen.
Books That Resonate with Readers
Higher Ground Books & Media features compelling stories written by authors who mirror the experiences you might be facing. Whether in fiction or non-fiction, our writers provide encouragement while revealing their innermost thoughts. You can find these inspiring works in the HGBM Shop or on Amazon. Additionally, if audiobooks are your preference, many of our exciting titles are accessible on Audible.
Why Reading Matters
Reading not only entertains but also educates and empowers. It can help us process emotions and understand complex issues in our lives. Stories that portray resilience and survival create a sense of community among readers. They remind us that healing is possible and that we can overcome even the gravest challenges.
Finding Your Voice
Writing isn't merely about sharing experiences; it's also about finding your own voice. Every writer has a unique story that deserves to be told. Embrace your journey, whether it involves trauma or triumph. Remember that vulnerability is a strength, and the act of writing can be a crucial step in your healing process.
The Role of Community in Healing
In building connections through storytelling, we find a supportive community. Writers and readers alike can share experiences and insights. This exchange creates a sense of belonging. We become part of a larger narrative that stretches beyond individual experiences.
In conclusion, storytelling serves as a powerful tool for healing. As I continue to write, I aim to balance emotional depth with narrative purpose. With each word, I hope to inspire healing and empowerment in others, just as I've found in the stories of the authors I admire.